Last week I caught up with a friend that I hadnt spoken to in quite some time. The convo went something like this.....
Me : Hey stranger! Where you been?
Her : I been laying low. Got a new boyfriend and all.....
Me : Yeah that'll do it!
Her : I got your msg a while back. Sorry I didnt get back. He goes through my phone sometimes. I had to tell him that you were my cousin.
*insert sound of record coming to a screeching halt*
Anyone see the problem here? Anyone?.....Anyone?........Bueller?
Now homegirl and I have been cool for a few years but never ever have we been on it like that! I could see if we had had some sorta torrid past but...no dice.
I just don't understand the insecurity. We are in our 30's yo! If you have any common sense at all, then you'd take it as a given at this point that your new significant other probably has friends of the opposite sex.
I literally asked homegirl "He goes through your phone? What is he.....12?"
Who does that in an ADULT relationship?
5 years ago